lilac
04-08-2011, 09:33 PM
I started with this new little girl, she was 3 in January, she's been with me for 3 weeks now.
The other kids in the group all get along like they've been friends forever. They are all between the ages of 4.5 and 7 and all in school (except for the baby 11ms) My new little girl C, is old enough to be frustrated when the baby is around (knocking something she is playing with, or grabbing onto something or her b/c she's just about to walk) but maybe not old enough to understand that she is a baby and these are the things babies do, they play differently. She really wants to play with the older kids, but the older kids of course play differently than her, and get frustrated with her and sometimes being mean to her. (for example today it was the boys had drawn this map of roads all over the driveway and were driving their dump trucks following the map. C wanted to join in and started drawing on their map and they got upset that they had ruined their map) and that's the way the past 3 weeks have been going.
I try to spend time playing with C as much as I can so she isnt just sitting watching the others play.
So how do I get the others to warm up to her, to not leave her out, or get upset with her? Seems the more i try to talk to them about it the worse it gets... will it just pass? I'd hate for her to be unhappy and feel left out here.
The other kids in the group all get along like they've been friends forever. They are all between the ages of 4.5 and 7 and all in school (except for the baby 11ms) My new little girl C, is old enough to be frustrated when the baby is around (knocking something she is playing with, or grabbing onto something or her b/c she's just about to walk) but maybe not old enough to understand that she is a baby and these are the things babies do, they play differently. She really wants to play with the older kids, but the older kids of course play differently than her, and get frustrated with her and sometimes being mean to her. (for example today it was the boys had drawn this map of roads all over the driveway and were driving their dump trucks following the map. C wanted to join in and started drawing on their map and they got upset that they had ruined their map) and that's the way the past 3 weeks have been going.
I try to spend time playing with C as much as I can so she isnt just sitting watching the others play.
So how do I get the others to warm up to her, to not leave her out, or get upset with her? Seems the more i try to talk to them about it the worse it gets... will it just pass? I'd hate for her to be unhappy and feel left out here.