kidlove
09-25-2012, 01:46 PM
I have posted several times regarding a "difficult" parent. I have a Mother who seems to try and "butt heads" with me at every turn. She is a new Mom, her daughter has been with me for about 4 months now. I first met her when she was pregnant, very quiet, very nice, little to say, and when we first met she seemed really happy with the way I ran things. After meeting a few times and talking over the phone through out the end of her pregnancy, I felt pretty good (although in the back of my head, something always seemed a little off) her moods have never been easy to pin point. She tends to stay very quiet, watching me more than talking herself, but when she does put in her two cents, it seems quite opinionated. She seems to "know" a lot, when talking to her about her baby, ...I get a lot of "i know" or "we tried that". I sense she is not interested in what i have to say. (she's become difficult to say the least)
I have posted about her not wanting me to take her child in my vehicle (when I ask) but she asks me to drop her off to her rather than leave work early (if I have an appt) heres the kicker: when I asked to take her I informed her I had a infant seat, she was uncomfortable with my car seat, BUT when I had an appt and she asked me to drive her daughter into her place of work, she told me I could use the seat belt and wrap it through the top of the seat rather than use the base. confused!
She has showed up a number of times early to pick-up, a few have been about 30 to 40 minutes, one time she came about 1.5 hours early and today she did the, "hubby will be there at 12" and showed up at 10 am. No call ahead and no reason for picking up. I feel I should have known both.
It seems to me like she wants to be in control and no one else. and I can't get over the seeming "lack of communication". Something is off here, and really bothering me. Put yourself in my position...what would you do?:no::no::no:
I have posted about her not wanting me to take her child in my vehicle (when I ask) but she asks me to drop her off to her rather than leave work early (if I have an appt) heres the kicker: when I asked to take her I informed her I had a infant seat, she was uncomfortable with my car seat, BUT when I had an appt and she asked me to drive her daughter into her place of work, she told me I could use the seat belt and wrap it through the top of the seat rather than use the base. confused!
She has showed up a number of times early to pick-up, a few have been about 30 to 40 minutes, one time she came about 1.5 hours early and today she did the, "hubby will be there at 12" and showed up at 10 am. No call ahead and no reason for picking up. I feel I should have known both.
It seems to me like she wants to be in control and no one else. and I can't get over the seeming "lack of communication". Something is off here, and really bothering me. Put yourself in my position...what would you do?:no::no::no: