Thanks for being here

[kidzandme]

I have been a daycare provider for a very long time. Having stumbled upon this site by accident, I am thrilled. Now when I have a bad day, well there it is, some one has actually gone through something similar and better yet ADVICE. Amazing I tell you simply amazing. Disagreeable parents, bad mannered children, messy house, picky eaters and even feeling frumpy. Thank you, all you wonderful people, thank you, for making me feel better and for helping me realize that I do make a difference. Thank you for making me feel not so alone, even if most of you are in Ontario. I hail from Saskatchewan. I still have alot to learn, so off to read some more.

[Momof4]

I really like this site too. You can probably tell by my post count. :woot: I'm a forum addict and I admit it! If you have been in business a long time you can teach us a lot so share please and welcome.

[Artsand crafts]

I love this forum, too! Great advice and feel support knowing that other people is going through same issues...

[Other Mummy]

This is our virtual water cooler :) I love this site as well. Cannot tell you how much I've learned and applied to my business.

[crafty]

I owe a lot of my success to this webiste. I have had tons of great advice on this website and I also appreciate all the difference in opinions. You feel better knowing there not just ONE way of doing things and getting results.

This job is very isolating ... at least for me it is. The only outting I do is when we walk to get the mail so ... Love that I can take a break on here.

[mimi]

As a provider, I came into my own by learning so much from the other providers. I am a better provider and business person because of it. Welcome :)

[kidzandme]

I can never say it enough, thank you.

Right now I am having trouble with a family.
The problem is not with the child, the problem is the disrespect from the parents.
They have been late paying me, have not paid the full amount, the drop off time is 6am and sometimes they do not show up, even though they know that I get up early just for them. A few days ago the dcd was disrespectful when I called to ask if their child would be at my home the next day. Because of his attitude I told them I was not available for today. I do not want this family in my home anymore. Any advice on how to handle this? Oh yeah they live across the street from me, a busy street but still across the street.

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[BlueRose]

I would replace then terminate. It will be hard with them across the street, but you don't need to be treated this way and shouldn't put up with it. I would remind them that they signed your contract and that you do have the right to take them to court or have a collections agency get the money they owe you.

If you don't I would also start charging a late payment fee from here on in. Mine is $10/day (this includes the weekend). They also can not bring their child until all fees are paid in full.

[sunnydays]

I would give them a written warning that you will be forced to terminate care if the issues are not resolved immediately (list the specific issues and how they need to be resolved). Warn them that any future infractions will lead to immediate termination. Good luck!

And, this forum has taught me ever so much as well...I owe a lot of my success to all the ladies here who give fantastic advice and support :)

[giraffe]

You know what? I always find that the parents are much harder to deal with than the children

[Other Mummy]

You know what? I always find that the parents are much harder to deal with than the children

Yes. We cannot put the parents in a time-out. BUT we can enforce our policies and demand the respect we deserve. One example of demanding your respect as a business person...Refuse care for their child when they show up in the morning without late fees or full amount due.

As a parent, I cannot imagine disrespecting, short-changing and pissing off the one person who has such a huge influence and upbringing in my child. That's just plain dumb. It's also a good way to get terminated in my daycare.

[Momof4]

I would give them a written warning that you will be forced to terminate care if the issues are not resolved immediately (list the specific issues and how they need to be resolved). Warn them that any future infractions will lead to immediate termination. Good luck!

And, this forum has taught me ever so much as well...I owe a lot of my success to all the ladies here who give fantastic advice and support :)

I agree about the letter of warning. I do not allow anyone to show any disrespect to me in my home and my contract and policies must be followed to the letter. There is no excuse for late payments. People have to prioritize their budgets, so do we!

[kidzandme]

I can never say it enough, thank you.

Right now I am having trouble with a family.
The problem is not with the child, the problem is the disrespect from the parents.
They have been late paying me, have not paid the full amount, the drop off time is 6am and sometimes they do not show up, even though they know that I get up early just for them. A few days ago the dcd was disrespectful when I called to ask if their child would be at my home the next day. Because of his attitude I told them I was not available for today. I do not want this family in my home anymore. Any advice on how to handle this? Oh yeah they live across the street from me, a busy street but still across the street.

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Just wanted to give an update on this family.
I took a long hard look at this situation and decided enough.
I should not be intimidated by them because they live across the street, they should be intimidated because I LIVE CROSS THE STREET.
Well I put my big girl pants on, went over and told them the way it is.
They are on a probation period ( 6 months) they must pay every month in advance.
If they do not call when their child will not be here I will take this as their immediate notice.
If there is any disrespect on their part I will give immediate notice. They signed a contract agreeing to all of these terms. I also demanded an apology and surprise I got it.
I decided that I work too long and hard for them to take advantage of me. They seemed very surprised that I stood up to them, like any other bully they caved when confronted. I am planning on replacing them as I do not want them in my home any longer than need be. Ahhhh it felt so good. Thanks agsin for being there when I needed to vent.

[Crayola kiddies]

alright !!!!!! good for you !!!! You rock !!!!

[jammiesandtea]

Yeah! That's awesome, kidzandme! You go girl! :thumbsup:

[Other Mummy]

Good for you :thumbsup: Bet they didn't see that coming LOL! Doesn't it feel good to take control back.

[mimi]

You are my hero:thumbsup: Yeah to your success, hope you replace soon

[Momof4]

Wow, they apologized? You are fantastic! Yay for you!:thumbsup: