Brooke91
06-06-2013, 11:26 AM
So I recently sighned on my last kiddoe on May 20th is when he started..
There's been issues with him crying, not constantly, but a good part of the day..
He is only 14 months old, but now that I've had him the last 2 weeks almost 3 now.. I am seeing just how big of an age gap 14mths-18mths is and 14mths-22mths is..
All of my kids are aged 18 months-5..
He cries when I need to run up stairs and grab something, when i put him down in the room and walk away, when I reprimand the kids, which sometimes is all day.. I have these older kids and my own child to also pay attention too, I feel like some days this kid is taking up my attention from everyone else..
Does it ever end?? Will he get better??
I'm feeling like I can't take this child constant whining/crying along with my sons whining.. I think my son is going through that separation anxiety stage.. He also freak outs when I leave the room ect ect too..
So what to do?? What to do..
I feel bad, thus family is great pays on time, is never early is actually paying me 100$ more then my monthly fee because they wanted their child in my care, but I just don't know,on the days when he is only here for a half day are great for me I don't feel stressed or anything..
I feel like he is too young for the ages I have.. That us what I told the parents.. That I had another interview with a child that was closer to the ages I had 22 months to be exact.. And I said if I went with the other family it was because of ages..
Then this family sends me an email saying we will pay you 100$ extra for the extra care that our son may require.. I talked it over with the hubby and he said I shoukd take them, they sounded good.. So I did.. Shouda just went with my gut and gone with the older child..
So what do I do now.. The family has sighned a contract.. It is up in June.. I just don't think I'll be able to last that long with all thus crying :(
There's been issues with him crying, not constantly, but a good part of the day..
He is only 14 months old, but now that I've had him the last 2 weeks almost 3 now.. I am seeing just how big of an age gap 14mths-18mths is and 14mths-22mths is..
All of my kids are aged 18 months-5..
He cries when I need to run up stairs and grab something, when i put him down in the room and walk away, when I reprimand the kids, which sometimes is all day.. I have these older kids and my own child to also pay attention too, I feel like some days this kid is taking up my attention from everyone else..
Does it ever end?? Will he get better??
I'm feeling like I can't take this child constant whining/crying along with my sons whining.. I think my son is going through that separation anxiety stage.. He also freak outs when I leave the room ect ect too..
So what to do?? What to do..
I feel bad, thus family is great pays on time, is never early is actually paying me 100$ more then my monthly fee because they wanted their child in my care, but I just don't know,on the days when he is only here for a half day are great for me I don't feel stressed or anything..
I feel like he is too young for the ages I have.. That us what I told the parents.. That I had another interview with a child that was closer to the ages I had 22 months to be exact.. And I said if I went with the other family it was because of ages..
Then this family sends me an email saying we will pay you 100$ extra for the extra care that our son may require.. I talked it over with the hubby and he said I shoukd take them, they sounded good.. So I did.. Shouda just went with my gut and gone with the older child..
So what do I do now.. The family has sighned a contract.. It is up in June.. I just don't think I'll be able to last that long with all thus crying :(