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CountryMommy
09-21-2011, 08:23 PM
So I had an interested parent who wanted very unpredictable hours/days of child care. Days could range anywhere from 6-16/month. And hours on those days would vary from 3-9 hours/day.

I usually charge a set PT rate that is for anyone who needs less than 100 hours a month of child care. But because some months I would only have the girl in my care for about 18 hours/month I tried to accomodate to these parents' needs. She said her previous provider charged a rate of $3.75/hour because of the unpredictable schedule.

Now I'm wondering, should I go with it or should I just state that I'd still charge her my usual PT rate and let her decide if she's still interested? In a way I understand where she's coming from; it'd be a lot to pay the PT rate for months when so little child care was provided. But on busier months this rate would mean that she would get a MUCH cheaper rate. On busier months she would potentially be here more than 100 hours and that would normally cost her my FT rate, but with this rate she would pay half of my PT(!) rate...

Would you just state that she is paying for a spot in my dayhome and not for actual hours in care or would you be okay with the 3.75/hour?

Dealing with situations like these are one of my less loved parts of having a dayhome.:glare:

CPST_Manda
09-21-2011, 09:24 PM
While I think a little flexibility and understanding is important in any line of work, what she's asking you to do is pretty rotten. Would she like it if her employer told her some months she'd have to work 6 days and some 16?

Whether or not you take her on is totally up to you.

CountryMommy
09-21-2011, 09:42 PM
This is the rates I have right now.

Full time: 650/month (more than 100 hours)
Part time: 434/month (less than 100 hours)

My husband suggested giving her another option, say less than 50 hours. That way if she were here for more than 100 hours, she'd pay my full time rate. If she were here from 50-100 hours a month, she'd pay my part-time rate. And if she were here for less than 50 hours, she'd pay, for example, $300/month.

I think I'm going to offer her this. If she's not interested then, I'll wish her good luck.

CPST_Manda
09-21-2011, 10:13 PM
This is the rates I have right now.

Full time: 650/month (more than 100 hours)
Part time: 434/month (less than 100 hours)

My husband suggested giving her another option, say less than 50 hours. That way if she were here for more than 100 hours, she'd pay my full time rate. If she were here from 50-100 hours a month, she'd pay my part-time rate. And if she were here for less than 50 hours, she'd pay, for example, $300/month.

I think I'm going to offer her this. If she's not interested then, I'll wish her good luck.

I think she should be grateful to have those options.

mlc1982
09-22-2011, 12:36 AM
I think she should be grateful as well. I had someone ask me about a plan like this and I refused. I like to have a set schedule and a set income every month.

Judy Trickett
09-22-2011, 06:30 AM
Daycare is about paying for a spot - not the hours of actual care. IMO, she should be happy she found anyone who would take her for that kind of schedule and not charge her FULL TIME fees. Just think about it - if she is attending on a willy nilly bases on different days each week and each month then you are actually losing income because you can not fill those alternate days she is not in attendance with another child. And you can't fill the "blanks" she leaves because it is impossible to find another family who will just come when YOU say they can.

What she wants is called flex-care. And two things have to happen in this situation with regard to fees:

Option A - she pays full time fees because she technically needs to come any of the five days per week.

Option B - she pays far more per day than your usual rate. So, for example, if your usual fee is around $32 a day (which, looking at your numbers posted seems about your daily rate) then she should be paying $40-$42 a day to come flex. AND, if you use this option she should also be committed to a MINIMUM number of days per month that she HAS to pay for regardless of attendance. You will find that if you allow parents to come when they please with no commitment there WILL be months (let's say on the parents vacation or over December when everyone takes a lot of time off over Christmas etc) that the child might only attend one or two days or not at all! Then you lost out income for a whole spot that month ($650 in your case). I would say a minimum commitment of 2 or 3 days a week.

Trust me, BTDT with flex care. I have told the story before but the short version of my experience with flex care is that early in my daycare career I accommodated a flex family and over the course of 5 years I lost $28,000 in income because I allowed them to come willy nilly and pay as they went. Learn from MY mistakes. They pay for a spot or.................. NEXT!

Pick an option and stick with it but do NOT allow her to just come and pay hourly. That is not fair to you. You are running a business and should not have to lose income because a parent doesn't want to pay what's fair. Why should SHE save money and you lose it?? Are her bills more important than yours?

playfelt
09-22-2011, 07:57 AM
I was going to suggest she pay a set fee for the month to reserve her space in your care - and then a daily fee for any day she uses. So it is like a reservation fee plus a usage fee. If the weeks over time balance out then she will pay more than your full time rate some months and less on others but over time it will be the same. ie even in the busy months she still needs to pay the daily fee not drop down to the full time rate. If she wants that she needs to book and pay that every week as in pick one system of payment and then stick with it. The set fee part will pay for the child's basics and allow you to budget and then anything else you get from the child is bonus. You could also ask for a monthly calendar and figure out a basic average number of days and ask her to pay that on a weekly basis so it spreads out the fee. How many hours she uses per day doesn't count so don't go to an hourly rate - if she brings the kids it is a used day and she pays accordingly as the space is gone and can't be given to another child.

Sandbox Sally
09-22-2011, 08:53 AM
I have a child with unpredictable days as well. I insisted that they give me at least 14 days per month, and they were happy with that. They pay a flat weekly fee, regardless of his attendance. This means that he doesn't have to pay stats, but they also have to pay in full if I take vaca days. I determined their flat weekly fee by multiplying the number of days per month by my daily fee, then multiplying this by 12 (months per year), then dividing by 52 (weeks per year). It works out very well for us.

mamaof4
09-23-2011, 09:20 AM
Look at it this way- if the child was in school and had to miss for whatever reason- would he or she be charged a different amount for tuition? No- they are paying for the spot- it is up to them if they use it.

mamaball
09-23-2011, 10:10 AM
WOW I wish I could charge like this I have trouble having parents pay for missed days let alone just paying for a space and so many of mine are part time :(

horsegirl
09-23-2011, 06:13 PM
My parents sign a contract that states what days they are reserving. The contract states that they pay their monthly fee on or before the 1st of the month. If a parent needs sparadic days per week then I suggest that they sign up for the full time spot and pay the full time fee of $900. per month. I let them know that I cannot guarantee that I will have space for their child if they do not do this. I explain to them that they then have a place that they can drop off their child to do such chores as shopping, haircuts, doctors or dentists appointment, etc. I use analogies with parents and they seem to understand the situation better, such as if you were reserving a hotel room, but you did not know which days you needed it for would the hotel hold the room for the full week knowing that you would only be paying for 3 or 4 of those days? If you think that getting your fees from this parent is going to be a problem every month, it may be worth looking for another family that appreciates what you do.
My contract states that if a child is absent from care and I am open, the family needs to pay for the reserved space. This is why parents pay on the first of the month. I have had parents ask me about their holiday and if they have to pay when they are away. I use the analogy---If you go away for 2 weeks do you phone your bank and tell them because you are not living in your house for 2 weeks that you are not going to pay 2 weeks of your mortgage? Or -- if they have a car loan will they phone the bank and let them know that they are not going to pay for the 2 weeks they will not be driving their car? Mine is a service also. Most parents get paid vacations, medical/dental and pension plans, paid sick days, etc, etc. and some of these benefits can add up to 35% of their wages. This is the hardest part of my business.

CountryMommy
09-23-2011, 08:25 PM
The family contacted me and asked if they could come for an interview on monday and asked for my rates. This is the response I have typed out, but haven't sent it yet.

Hi,

Because I usually just have a firm price for child care, no matter what hours child care is needed, I had a hard time trying to find a way to accomodate to your family's needs. Usually the way dayhomes operate is that each family pays for a space in the dayhome, regardless of the days the children attend. Providers are only allowed to have a certain number of children enrolled. So if a provider enrolls a child who's attendance is unpredictable the provider isn't able to enroll another child to be there on the days that the other child doesn't attend, because the provider has to always have space for that child to come whenever child care is needed. That is why providers usually charge for the space that child is using in the dayhome, instead of days child care is needed.


But I try very hard to accomodate to my family's individual needs and understand how difficult it is to pay the full amount when your child will only attend my dayhome a few days on some months. This is why I have decided to give your family a special rate.

I am offering these prices for your particular situation. These prices include all agency fees, meals, etc.:

-$300 for enrollment (charged to all parents at enrollment)
-50 or less hours a month: $295/month (a special rate I am giving your family)
-50 to 100 hours a month: $434/month (my part time rate)
-100 or more hours a month: $650/month (my full time rate)

My dayhome is open from 7:30 to 5:30. If you need child care outside of those hours, you would be charged my extended hours fees with your monthly bill. These are my extended hours rates:

If you use less than 10 hours a month of extended child care hours = $30/month
11 or more hours/month of extended hours = $3.50/hour

Your family is more than welcome to come meet me and see our place on Monday after 7 pm.

Have a wonderful weekend,
xxxxxxx



What do you think?

mom-in-alberta
09-26-2011, 02:51 PM
I think that your response is very well worded, and that if you are comfortable with that arrangement, then it works.
I was going to say; my full timers pay monthly, and my part timers pay daily. Either way, their fee holds a SPOT in the dayhome, as opposed to paying hourly, etc. I have 2 families that we have determined the minimum amount I require (both happen to be 6 days per month at the least). Over and above that, they give the schedule in advance (usuallly the end of the month for the next month) and pay extra for any more days.
That way, I know that I have a minimum amount coming in, and some months it is more but never less. I can budget, they have flexibility as needed, and some days it means less kids than usual. Works for us, but I could never let someone come and go as they please. I need to be able to budget!

CountryMommy
09-26-2011, 06:14 PM
Thanks everyone for your input! :)

They decided I was too expensive. Even with the discount I was giving them, and even considering I am subsidy approved. :rolleyes:

So I wished them good luck and am moving on.

And I have decided not to personalize my prices anymore. I charge what I charge; if they don't like it, they can go somewhere else. I am charging very reasonable rates and offer high quality child care, so I won't feel guilty for charging what I charge anymore.

zen39
09-27-2011, 10:28 AM
Good for you Country Mommy...don't negotiate. Give them your part and full time rate and they can either accept or walk away. Often people negotiate because they get concerned about filling the spots and then at some point in time, you'll just end up regretting that you did.

I only do full time right now, but my part time fee was similar to yours $35 daily rate for under 4 hours and for a 3 day minimum...works out to about $420 for 4 weeks. Anything over 4 hours and it's full time rate.

Don't feel guilty. You need to do what is best for you, your family and your business. Good luck with filling the spots...it will happen.