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ebhappydc
11-09-2015, 02:14 PM
Hi - if your dcks hardly touch their milk at lunch, do u offer at afternoon snack time? Tx!

babydom
11-09-2015, 02:15 PM
I don't. I only offer it at lunch. If they ask for it at snack then I give it. But otherwise water or diluted juice for snacks

torontokids
11-09-2015, 02:23 PM
I only give milk after lunch when we read stories. Kids are drinking far too much milk these days! Most kids will drink milk with supper at home or before bed. Some have it before DC too. I do give a lot of calcium filled foods though so they are definitely getting their requirements. American Pediatric Society recommends only 16-20 oz a day.

Lee-Bee
11-09-2015, 03:04 PM
I don't offer milk to drink any more. We have it in cereal and various recipes. I do yogurt (plain with frozen berries) daily and cheese and other sources of calcium plus lots of sunshine. As far as I am concerned milk just fills their belly preventing them from having to try more nutritious foods.

5 Little Monkeys
11-09-2015, 04:35 PM
I switched to mainly water quite awhile ago and they never ask for it. (Milk I mean lol) The odd time I'll give them choc milk for a treat or if we eat at a restaurant. We eat a lot of dairy so I felt it wasn't needed and I was dumping a lot of milk out at end of day :(

As to your question....I fill up their cups every morning and only refill as needed so if they had milk leftover at lunch, yes they'd get it at next snack

jodaycare
11-09-2015, 04:53 PM
I serve milk at lunch only, water for snacks. Also they get their drinks after they are done their meal/snack.

ebhappydc
11-10-2015, 06:31 AM
wow 5LM - taking the kiddies to a restaurant! nice...i'm not brave enough for that....

5 Little Monkeys
11-10-2015, 07:29 AM
wow 5LM - taking the kiddies to a restaurant! nice...i'm not brave enough for that....

Well to be fair, I only take 2-3 to a "nice" restaurant and if I take all 4 to the summer restaurant down the street, my husband comes too (he has to get his burger and shake lol). I must say, my kids are all really good at restaurants! Two of the places we go are buffet though so that helps....can get them fed ASAP! Haha

babydom
11-10-2015, 08:18 AM
5LM.....do u pay for the kids to eat out? Or the parents give u $$ when u tell them ur going out for lunch today?

5 Little Monkeys
11-10-2015, 08:23 AM
5LM.....do u pay for the kids to eat out? Or the parents give u $$ when u tell them ur going out for lunch today?

I never ask for extra money for any of the field trips we do. I feel that it should come out of the daily fee they already pay, especially if it's just lunch, I'd have to feed them anyways if we stayed home. We've gone to places where we need to pay to get in or play arcade games (usually just over $20) or to do pottery ($20-$30) but I pay all of that as I don't find it too much and I'm able to claim it anyways as business expenses

mickyc
11-10-2015, 08:32 AM
I don't serve milk either. We have dairy foods during the day. Kids are getting enough at home.

I also don't ask for extra money if we go on an outing. It's my choice to go out so that additional cost is on me.

Suzie_Homemaker
11-10-2015, 08:50 AM
I give milk both morning and afternoon snack. Water with lunch. Not big bottle or huge cup though. If they want more after drink milk, they given water. I not serve juice ever.

babydom
11-10-2015, 08:56 AM
Ah ok. I do the same. We just started gymnastics. And I go on the day I have just two. It's 5$ each every time we go. I pay it. But ppl were saying u should ask the parents to pay that u shouldn't have to its their child doing the activity. But the way I see it is that they can go to a daycare that doesn't do outings and not have to pay extra if they can't afford it. It's my choice to go so I pay. Otherwise we just stay in or do somethiing free like playgroup or a park. So good to know I'm not the only one that feels this way!! (Sorry for going off the topic of milk :p).

5 Little Monkeys
11-10-2015, 09:51 AM
Yes it's their child doing the activity but it isn't their choice if they go or not IMO. Yes, they could not send the money I guess and their child would just watch but how fair is that?

It will vary from dc to dc and I don't think either way is wrong but I just do what I feel is right and best for my dc :) If I can't afford to go out one week than we don't, no big deal!

superfun
11-10-2015, 01:56 PM
I typically only serve milk after lunch, water the rest of the day. And if we go out, the parent pays if they're able. One of my guide lines I have to follow is that I can't tell the parents they have to pay for an outing. I can ask them to "donate" to an outing, but if they don't I'm responsible for paying for that child.
I asked all my families before our first outing, and they all told me to charge them. I think it helps that they're teachers, so they are used to parents paying for field trips.

5 Little Monkeys
11-10-2015, 02:10 PM
I think it would depend how often you go too. I tend to go out a fair bit and would feel tacky (it isn't but that's how I'd feel) asking for extra money all the time. Lots of our outings are free or very minimal cost though

Maybe if I decreased my outings my savings would increase!!! Lol

superfun
11-10-2015, 02:15 PM
We only go out once or twice a month, and usually only one thing costs anything, so I don't feel bad charging them. :)

kdubw
11-11-2015, 08:06 AM
I do. Normally snacks are water/juice. Lunch is milk. They only get 1/4 c of fluid at snack/lunch times. If they want more, they are given more. If they don't finish the milk, I give it at afternoon snack or when they ask for a drink. They are given water throughout the day by request or I offer a drink every hour.

mimi
07-28-2016, 08:58 AM
No milk and no juice here. Juice is pop without the bubbles and milk is a product that is difficult to digest and is pasteurized. Filtered water only.
I take my kiddies to restaurants a couple times a month and cover the cost myself. It is a write off and the kids love the outing and a break from my cooking;)

bright sparks
07-28-2016, 10:25 AM
Milk is a meal replacement so I can never wrap my head around the mentality of giving it at a meal time??? It is not for hydration but for sustenance and nutrition which becomes unnecessary when table food is being consumed. Water at all meals and snack times and upon request...no milk and no juice ever.

I haven't taken my daycare kids out for lunch in a long time but I did take a group to Boston Pizza once. It was my choice to do so, I can't expect a parent to pay for the meal when it wasn't a necessity and was my choice when the original meal option was available.