JennJubie
12-11-2015, 01:35 PM
Do any of you ladies have that one child that makes you crazy??? I've got one right now... actually I've had this kiddo for a long time... He's 3.5. Now part of it is just a personality clash. Flat out just don't like this kiddo personality wise. It's nothing that can be helped, and I recognize it, so I have to work a little harder with this dkc. It happens.
The issue, however, is that this particular child is ALSO the one who after almost three years in my care: needs the most attention. If I talk to another adult, say my neighbour while we are at the bus stop, this dkc will holler my name over and over and get louder and louder. And when I tell dkc that we do not interrupt, dkc kid says "Oh.". The same happens when the other kids try to talk to me. If they're telling me something, or showing me something they built... this dkc will literally push the other kid out of the way, shove what he was doing in my face and start yelling for attention.
This is also the kid who constantly makes annoying noises. I thought it was just me being picky because of our personality clash, but the other kids have started begging dkc to "Stop!!!".
This is also the kid who will act out of control the minute his parents walk in the door. He starts deliberately disobeying, and when Mom or Dad are hugging him, or otherwise distracted, he will turn to me and smile. So I stamped that out real fast. He started getting time outs in front of his parents... and it seems to help a bit... but he will just keep pushing the limits. But only when his parents are here.
I fear that all of the little behaviour issues add up to a lack of structure and discipline at home... (They told me he was potty training, and then later admitted that they were doing none of it at home and leaving it all to me), and I'm afraid that this kid will just continue to drive me bonkers until September when he leaves for school.
Whew! Anyway.... thanks for letting me vent!
The issue, however, is that this particular child is ALSO the one who after almost three years in my care: needs the most attention. If I talk to another adult, say my neighbour while we are at the bus stop, this dkc will holler my name over and over and get louder and louder. And when I tell dkc that we do not interrupt, dkc kid says "Oh.". The same happens when the other kids try to talk to me. If they're telling me something, or showing me something they built... this dkc will literally push the other kid out of the way, shove what he was doing in my face and start yelling for attention.
This is also the kid who constantly makes annoying noises. I thought it was just me being picky because of our personality clash, but the other kids have started begging dkc to "Stop!!!".
This is also the kid who will act out of control the minute his parents walk in the door. He starts deliberately disobeying, and when Mom or Dad are hugging him, or otherwise distracted, he will turn to me and smile. So I stamped that out real fast. He started getting time outs in front of his parents... and it seems to help a bit... but he will just keep pushing the limits. But only when his parents are here.
I fear that all of the little behaviour issues add up to a lack of structure and discipline at home... (They told me he was potty training, and then later admitted that they were doing none of it at home and leaving it all to me), and I'm afraid that this kid will just continue to drive me bonkers until September when he leaves for school.
Whew! Anyway.... thanks for letting me vent!