Part timer won't stop crying... Major problems transitioning... HELP!
Hi everyone. I have been running my daycare since January and I love it...for the most part. Currently I have 3 full time 1 year olds and my own 1 year old. Its so much fun! I also have a part time little guy who comes on Wednesdays only that started in March. His parents are such nice sweet people. Never any issues with payment, lateness, pay me when he doesn't come even though I don't charge for sick days. Wonderful family. This little guy, however is giving me a real run for my money. The main problem is that he will not play with the other dck at all. Won't go near them. Crawls up to me and CLINGS to me crying his eyes out. I reassure him, give him a cuddle, tell him "You're okay xxx" and distract with a toy and move away. He follows and it begins again. I have a playpen in the next room that I have begun putting him in with toys but he still cries. He cries and clings to Mom at drop off, cries at snack, cries when I put him down for nap, cries at lunch, cries ALLLLLLL day long. He is also on a very different schedule than mine so I have been tweaking his to make it work with mine so that I get some kind of break during the day. All of my drop offs are between 6:45-7:15
My schedule:
Breakfast 7:30
Morning nap 8:30-10
Lunch 11:00
Afternoon nap 1-3
Snack 3:15
His schedule:
Drop off 9:30
Breakfast 10:00
Morning nap 11:00 (1-3 hours)
Lunch 1:00
Afternoon nap 3:00 (2-3 hours)
Snack bottle 5:00
Pick up 6:00
I have been waking him after 1 hour in the mornings and 2 hours in the afternoons so he actually has time with the other kids and so that we can all go out and enjoy the backyard. He refuses to do anything!
Mom is completely on board with him crying a bit and waiting his turn but does want him to try and keep his schedule as she works until 8pm and wants to see him before bed AND its only 1 day a week.
I am so tempted to just suck it up for the 1 day a week and keep his schedule as it is and have NO break at all the one day a week he is here.
Don't know what else to do. I hate that he has been coming for 2 months now and still is so upset. Mom and I have been arranging playdates at my house or the park on my low numbers day (Fridays) for an hour and he clings to her the entire time.
HELP!!!