DCD Says “Too old for naps now”

[Peacefulbird]

I cannot separate my kids into different rooms because no one sleeps in an an enclosed bed (playpen, crib, etc) so I have to be supervising all of them at all times.*

Hi,

If you're suprevising all of them at all times then basically it is easy. Set a little corner for this child to work on quiet activities, I've done that. Children learn fast I usually let them pick the activities they want to work on. I sat beside them and quietly we worked on them.

Also,

As mentioned in other posts, you need to review further the regulations in your province. In Ontario if a child doesn't fall asleep within 20 mins. Then keeping him/her in bed is considered child abuse. Make sure your contract is consistent with the regulations.

I also believe that a close and everyday communication between parents and caregivers is a must. Obviously if the child is going too late to sleep during the night then parents and caregivers should come up with the best solution for the welll-being of the child.

Many children give up naps between 3 and 4 yo. I currently have one that (according to his parents still needs his long naps), but the child doesn't show signs needing those naps anymore. So after 20 mins. He usually joins the quiet activities and older kids. Goes to home and goes bed at 7:00 pm waking up at 07:00 am. A dream child nice character very well in control and self regulated. He's only 3yo. So this child needs a good and long night sleep no more naps. Sometimes he sleeps at 6:00 or 6:30 pm until next day.

Every child is unique and some need naps some give up naps earlier etc. What I would suggest is to look on providing the space and activities geared to nurture the non nappers. If it is not possible then most likely your program is only suited for infants and toddlers. Three and four y.o. might end up choosing preschool programs that are more flexible in this regards.

There are many quiet activities online, also books once you set a child with a task it is easy for them to continue every day it becomes a routine. I usually use (younger children's ) nap time to focus on my older ones place materials and focus on preschool subjects and skills etc.

Knowing that this might be a subject of discussion between you and the parent (and others for sure in the future). Perhaps makes sense on getting ready with some positive and knowledgeable solutions and suggestions (if you search this site this "nap and time" is a very common subject between parents and caregivers).

I hope it helps