I was feeling like that about 2 months ago. I worked 9.5-10 hours a day/5 days a week and then did the majority of the stuff with my own kids and then on weekends I spent it cleaning and doing laundry. I was so tired and wanted some days off. I decided to hire a cleaning lady. She comes in on Friday mornings and does all the cleaning I'd be doing on the weekend (except for my daycare area) and all I have left to do is the laundry and groceries. So, I now get at least 1 full day off where I don't have to do anything except enjoy my family. My oldest son does the dishes (he just turned 11 and has been doing them for about a year now) after supper (unload and load the dishwasher) and my husband does all the cooking on weekends. I cook 5 days a week...he can do the weekends. If he doesn't cook...no one eats. I think you need to start putting some of this load onto your dh or hire someone to help you out before you have a complete burn out. You can't do everything and nor should you!