I have two right now (both under a year) and third starting in a couple of weeks. I actually find the babies easier. Yes, you have to feed them and transport them from place to place, but they are very easily entertained, sleep a lot, don't argue or throw tantrums and don't fight with each other. I am finding it actually easier and more peaceful than ever. I went through the same dilemma as you, but I'm so glad I took the plunge