heheh sorry, couldnt help but giggle at that part about her crying at the song.
I have a 17 month old, FT who started Jan 3rd. His first 2 weeks were HELL. It took him forever to get comfortable and stop whining all day everyday.
This week has started and its like he is a different kid. Smiling, playing, hes a sweetheart now!
But during that transition time, my oh my, I felt like terming right then and there. It makes your day CRAP and I found all the kids would be ticking me off just due to the constant whining in the background.
You can do it. It take a strong woman to work through that and still like the kid at the end of the day.
Good luck to you, I hope she comes around for you real soon!!

ps time for tea??!! Break out the whiskey during naptime!! LOL