I can totally relate jodaycare! My hubby seems oblivious to everyday things that seem to stress me out (mainly financial stress) and the constant feeling of having to be 'on' all the time. Work 12 hours a day, then still have to take care of my own children and their needs/wants in the evenings, plus everything that comes with a house (bill payments, cleaning, repairs etc.) Always worrying that if one child leaves daycare will i be able to fill the spot in time to get our bills paid...