The problem is, I can't give this little one any of my food as his parents have him on baby food and haven't given me permission to give him anything else except for bananas, which they want me to mash. I guess I can just explain to the parents the reason why we aren't doing cupcakes and send him home his little gift. Like Playfelt, I wait until after the little one's birthday so that the parents have a chance to have their party first...but I don't want to skip it because then it doesn't seem fair when we celebrate the older kids' birthdays.