Momof4, thank you for your input. They said he doesn't always throw up but it happened few times and if they don't mash his food they are afraid that he won't eat anything. He chews on meat but does not swallow.
I feel if I take on this child It will be difficult one. On the other hand, I'm thinking that he will see other kids are feeding themselves with finger food and he will copy them.
Hubby said the same thing and I should not take on this child. But I feel I'm not giving him a fair chance.
Cocoon