I've had a parent do this to me. I told her that "blankety blank' was in good hands, I'm great at my job, my house is clean and to date there have been no serious injuries. I said to her that I know it must be very difficult to leave her little one but if she is to continue to bring the little one to me then there has to be trust. If she cannot trust me, she needs to find someone she feels she CAN trust. I continued saying that I just don't have the time to talk for 15 minutes about instructions on her daughter or to give every detail about the day as there are 5 other children running around my house that also need attention and supervision. . . .

Dont be afraid to say what is on your mind. Many people are not as smart as you would like to think they are and need things spelled out for them.

If you are dead set on terminating then change the part where I said 'if you are to continue to bring you kid there needs to be trust' to 'trust is very important to me and seems to be a major issue here. I feel that you would be more comfortable somewhere else. Start looking for somewhere you would feel more comfortable leaving your child. Three weeks should be enough time right?' . . . . this way there is no further discussion other than 'yes that should be plenty of time'