mom in alberta brought up the the exact reason for my termination of a 2 1/2 year old girl in my first year in this business, because she was out of control violent and hurt the other children in my care. Yes, she could be a sweetie but the parents were completely stupid and I feel terrible that I couldn't turn that little one into a wonderful human being instead of the scary person I'm afraid she may have become without me but we can't save everyone. At least the other children in my daycare were safe and it became a calm environment once she was gone. Sometimes we have to make difficult decisions.