I don't think she is "passive-aggressive" because she asked how her sons' day was and what he had for lunch etc. And I think saying "He is in cloth diapers so she doesn't need to ask about that, she can go home to inspect for herself." is very wrong.

All parents' wonder and ask how their child/ren's day were. If they don't ask then it's abnormal. I personally think there is nothing wrong with her asking those questions. She just wants to know how her sons' day was that's all. And I think as her sons caregiver you MUST tell her how his day went regardless of her asking or not asking.


Cocoon