Ah Spixie, it sounds like you have tried everything and have let the parents know that they should be doing more to get their child under control. You have no reason to feel guilty at all because you've tried everything and agonized over this decision. I now agree with the other ladies after hearing all of this and think that you should get it over with and do it quickly.

You definitely deserve to be happy and stress free with co-operative families and children in your life daily. Most of us have had to terminate for one reason or another and it is a stomach churning event but then once it's done and you realize you are happy you just breathe a sigh of relief every morning when getting ready to start the day.