What a Difference a Year Makes!

[Sandbox Sally]

When I first started advertising to fill my day home a year ago, I was desperate to fill up. I would take anyone, and was willing to put up with all kinds of ridiculous behaviours.

The time has come again that I have open spaces to fill. The two children that are leaving me are doing so on good terms (one off to preschool, the other's mother is on mat leave). I am SO much more confident in my interviews. I am not willing to negotiate ANYTHING in my contract, and I will NOT appease parents. They can take me or leave me (and my home, my dog, my routine, and everything else!). It's a very liberating feeling. I used to feel like I was kissing butt and walking on eggshells to get people to sign on, and now I feel like they are proving themselves to ME.

Just wanted to say that to people who understand how great this feels. I owe it ALL to all of you, and the continued support and encouragement I have received on this forum since last spring.

Thank you, women!

[Inspired by Reggio]

A truly AWESOME place to be .... a strong, confident business women who realizes that her service should be coveted by those BLESSED to find them .... awesome place to be and yes truly liberating to realize that life is just too short to not be happy and thriving in your work!

[Cadillac]

Way to go alpha!!!!! It is such an awesome feeling! You deserve it

[Momof4]

I'm happy for you alpha and really hope you find a great family match for your daycare now that you have developed your program routines and can be confident in your interviews.

[lunademiel]

This is so encouraging and inspiring! Thank you!

[Mamma_Mia]

Boy I can't wait until I'm at that stage of the game!

Also possibly not having financial concerns may help.....lol

[Momof4]

Financial difficulties are the worst for stressful days and sleepless worrying nights.

Believe me, once you have been in business for a couple of years and have a great client base you won't ever have to worry about filling spaces again. I now have a huge waiting list and clients who constantly recommend me to their co-workers and I have to tell them that I'm full and can't help them. It's a wonderful feeling to be wanted and appreciated.

[Sarah]

I don't know if you remember, but I was coming here before my moving to Toronto and we did chat a few times. I am so happy to read this! It is great that you now have that confidence in you! Are you finally taking more kids as you wanted? Is this why some parents are leaving?

Sarah

[mom-in-alberta]

This post deserves an ATTA GIRL!!!

I am also curious; did you decide to take more kids in? How did the one family take it?

[Sandbox Sally]

I did decide to take the 4th. I sent out the long version of the email I posted on the thread, and one family said the more the merrier, and the family who told me they weren't comfortable with the idea did not reply. So, yesterday I texted her, and asked if she had received my email. She said she had, and I told her that I hoped she understood, and hoped that Miss D. would continue to receive care here. She replied that she wished that I wasn't taking the extra child, but that Miss D. was happy and safe with me, and as far as she was concerned she wasn't going anywhere.

So no, nobody left due to my announcement. As I mentioned, I only had four (two part timers, two full timers, so three at any one time), and two are leaving due to matters unrelated to care here.

Sarah, I definitely remember you, of course. How are things going in the East End?