I am not considering terminating...I love this family and have had no problems with them. It's just that they are quite relaxed about this issue and I don't feel the same way. I don't want the liability of an undiagnosed allergy. Although I don't accept children with allergies to food into my daycare, since this family has been with me for quite some time (I have thier two kids), I will keep him on unless he is diagnosed with a severe life threatening type allergy...which is not likely since he drinks milk every day with no issue. I just need to know so that I can avoid giving him foods that may cause problems for him. I am going to go ahead and tell the parents that I cannot give him milk until it has been checked out, just in case.