Not a "Flopper" but "Angry Spice"

[jec]

That sounds just like the daycare girl I explained on 'the flopper' she did the same. I had her dressed and ready to go for pick up too but if Angry spice doesn't like that, you could do the tough love and speak to her parents and advise them of your idea and get they are on board. Idea ~ tell daycare girl that when Mom and Dad arrive, she needs to get her boots and jacket on. If she doesn't, you will put her boots and jacket on and it doesn't matter if Mom and Dad are there - you won't put up with that behavior. I have no problem telling a little one in my care not to do something or correct a behavior in front of the parents if they don't in my home. I too am very loving and full of cuddles but firm when it comes to bad behavior.
She may cause a big stink but she is only trying to do it as her parents are allowing the behavior....she knows the rules of your home and what you are like.