I agree with kangaroomama when she says that your bending your policies right from the get go. That might and probably will lead to other times that she will expect you to bend on something else. First impressions aren't always right and you may find baby A to be sweetheart once you both get to know each other.
Also...for me, I would want to meet everyone before I make a choice to bring someone on for care. I would need to meet both the husband and the little one joining our daycare before I bring them into my home.
Good luck!! Let us know...