Skysue.....this lady is a wacko and you don't need her crap in your life! Treats are made for special occasions like birthday parties, that's why they are so fun!! The sad part is that your little one doesn't understand why the friend can't play and it's very hard to explain things that don't make any sense! Plus the poor little friend won't understand why she can't play either or why no one wants to go to her birthday party to drink water, eat tofu and watch grass grow, ha ha! I know it is very frustrating and hurtful but it is her problem she feels the need to put you down to feel like a good Mom.