Daycaremom9 that would never fly in my home daycare either! How would she feel if you showed up at her job and took over one day???? My open door policy is the same as the others but I would never let a mom come in and take over. This is my job and they certainly wouldn't want someone doing theirs for them. I would put a stop to it right away before the summer. I know, easier said than done once they have been allowed to do these things but you need to take the control back on your own business. Trust me, I went through all of this too and the ladies on here quickly put me in my place about not empowering the parents to do as they wish