Wow...what a nasty situation! So glad you are terminating immediately! I would add into the letter that she owes you XX amount of unpaid fees which need to be paid immediately. That will make that part more official. So glad you got your carseat back...they are more expensive than playpens usually! You are going to be amazed how much more peaceful your life is next week without this family Stay strong and do what you gotta do We are all backing you!