You need to find out what your comfort level is playkids ~ great view points from all.

As a mom first, I don't and couldn't let a child cry if she or he is really upset and needs you for that extra cuddle. Yes, we need to take care of the emotional well being is really important to help them feel safe and secure. Once I get to know the little one, I feel there is a difference between a cry of upset and a cry of I just want to be picked up.