I personally am not a babywearer and I would never accept into care a child that was because that child is going to expect me to carry them around all day and of course I couldn't do that so they are going to xry for a majority of the day. when I interview I like to find out what the norm is at home and if it is not similar to the way I do things here then I won't accept them. I do believe in self soothing and I have never ever brought any of my kids into my bed to sleep for any reason.and all of my kids slept through the night any where from between two weeks old to 12 weeks old.....I have also never laid down with any of my kids (in their bed) or had to rub or pat backs. They just went to bed .... I have been very lucky with all of my daycare kids also ... Everyone of them goes into a playpen and goes to sleep even the 10 month old.