Although I agree that the rolling of eyes was definitely rude and she should have been able to give some specific examples, I am not sure that the wet pants issue is necessarily pointing to a bad daycare provider. A child 3 years old can be very strong physcially and mentally and if he refused to change the clothes himself and refused to let her help him, the natural consequence would be to remain in the wet clothes. Should she have physically battled him to the ground and stripped his clothes off and wrestled new ones on? Then I think she would be opening herself up to abuse charges. She definitely should have (and likely did) try to get him to do it through incentives etc, but if that all failed (and I have known kids who can be very stubborn), then what?

































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