I absolutely agree with Playfelt about NEVER EVER TOUCHING a child! I would not have wrestled him out of his clothes, nor would I have even helped him out of them unless he was stuck or something as a child that age is more than able to do it themselves (unless they have special needs) I would have verbally exhausted anything I could think of to have him change. I agree that we have to do what is safest and cover our own butts in the process because like playfelt said if that child went home and said so and so held me down to change my clothes the parent would always side with the child regardless of the situation.