I have to say that I've never been a big fan of the 'pull-up' as a training tool. For nighttime security, sure. Any other opinions? And the ""anti-authoritarian"? From the start they said they didn't believe in time outs and the authoritative figure"....wow....ho w did you even deal with this child for a year?! So he never has consequence for his actions? 3 cheers to you for having gotten this far!