Poor you. My son is the same exact age (turned 2 in July). We tried potty training for a weekend (he had expressed interest in the toilet)....but it was way too early for him. Waiting until summer. My 6 year old was the same...I tried and tried when he turned 2, because I had read that you should when they turn 2....endless accidents/stress for him and us...But when he turned 3 he seemed to magically 'get it' and it was all so easy at that point. I can't even imagine the potty learning issues that this child has.