I agree I am not a restaurant ... I just graduated out one who was like that for THREE YEARS - she had severe control issues over food and a SWEET TOOTH and she would hold out for the poor carb options and refuse to eat anything else ... so with your sample menu she would only have eaten the graham cracker too cause she did not like meat and the fries were not McDonald style and ORANGE

Use to drive me nuts cause when she was new and I could not figure out why she would not CAVE and just eat like other kids cause her mom claimed they followed through at home and did not 'restaurant' feed her either she ate what was being served for meals or she went hungry ... she barely ate anything for the mother or me, suffered from constipation from the lack of fruit and veggies in her diet cause she would eat any 'bread / pasta / potatoes/ pizza / cookie / muffin' type things just not REAL unprocessed food? Once she learned to talk and I would say 'hon you should try something you are going to be hungry' and she would outright say 'I do not need to eat this cause daddy will give me a cookie at home and I wont be hungry' so I think all along daddy was CAVING when she did not eat meals and worried she was hungry and feeding her the thing she WANTED so she held out for it!

Eventually DADDY got a talking to from both the mother and the doctor and it was HARD to get her to change her eating habits but we had to literally LIMIT her carb options .... so when something she 'liked' was being served she got a normal serving of everything else being served and an 1/8 of a serving size of the thing she LIKED and in order to get MORE of t hat thing she had to take 5 bits of something on her plate and than she would get another tiny portion and eventually you would get her whole plate of healthy stuff into her - at least MOST days someday she would just do the outright refusal of eating although those were days she tended to be 'backed up' in the poop department

I just enrolled another self confessed picky eater - however it has been a month and she is TASTING everything on her plate at least to see if her taste buds are 'bigger yet' .