How many of you let your DCK's go to bed with a bottle? I have it in my policies that I don't allow. All parents get a hand out "how to prepare your child for daycare". It asks to wean children from the bottle before starting and it states the health and safety concerns of why I don't allow it.

I have a new parent who is unwilling to wean the child from the bottle in bed before they start with me. Should I let it go and just allow it? It almost feels like a power struggle more then the actual issue.

Thanks in advance!