I agree with Judy .... I let my first family " negotiate " certain terms of my contrat with me cause they were my first and only and so some of the things didn't bother me cause there were no other kids other then my own now that I have other children in care these little things are now big and they are still attempting to negotiate every little thing....it's total disrespect but I allowed it and now I am paying for it....so now what would I do with this knowledge I have now .... I would tell them that after trying it the 130 drop off is not working and he needs to be dropped off at xxxxx o'clock ..... Don't call to ask what time they are dropping off you already told what time that are dropping off if they don't show up within 10 mins do t accept them ..... Go out if you have to... Even though it's your own child's nap time .... When they are inconvenienced they will show up on time...... And Judys right they smell desperation ..... This will get worse cause they do believe you work for them ..... Been there ... Done that ....