Quote Originally Posted by Alphaghetti View Post
...Crappy thing is, she's become great friends with another mom from my group, and I really don't want to upset the balance by terminating if ykwim.
I would not look at is as 'terminating' but in making the hard decision to do what is BEST for both them and yourself ... if she is THAT allergic to dogs your home is no longer the ideal arrangement no matter how much she loves you or your program and you are just helping to pull off that bandaid of realization for her by pushing her ... she might actually be grateful cause she might be thinking it is a shitty thing to do to YOU terminating YOU over a DOG ... kwim?