This is the reason that if I make a contract change I have all 5 families resign the contract. I want them all to be exactly the same with everyone following the same rules, paying the same rates, well except my part-time rate is higher.

I did have to explain to my newest family who had scheduled shots for their son that I have a family in care who are non-vaxers and that all of my policies are in place for a reason. That's why I made the Friday for vax shots rule. I told the Dad that I have developed the policies over the years and that different people choose me for different reasons but every policy is important.

But I agree that we should never disclose private information from one family to another. There is no way I'm going to let any other family know which one doesn't vax their child, it's their private personal business. I'm the same way with all info the families tell me.