Wow, for sure two weeks of her crying it out should have gotten the message through to the child that she must sleep! Do they nap her at home? Same routine as you? I know with the 14 month old that I have (have had her since Jan) it was a struggle...bottle to bed, exactly warm enough (aargh) and as well, I had to let her cry it out & not check on her until I knew she was asleep (God bless Visual monitors) or the crying jag would start all over again. It was a challenge, but she got it within the first week. I also found that if I didn't nap her for an hour in the am. As well and tried to delay it to everyone else's time in the aft., she was way overtired and an even more challenge by 12:30p. My other challenge is a 2 year old I have that has to have a bottle of milk, a white noise sound machine going and total dark room...sheesh! You've certainly given it a good try and would not feel bad terminating because things just aren't working out.