ooo!!! me! me!!!
3 yrs old girl who just started expects me to pull her pants down, lift her on to the toilet, wipe her, and can't even pump the soap or turn on the water by herself! And when I ask her to pull up her pants she half-ass tries on purpose...like, not trying at all. Can't put on her shoes, OR coat...etc, etc, ETC. Obviously, I'm working very consistently to have her do it herself....but then Mom comes to pick her up and does every single thing for her! First born...only child...lol.

Another set of girls I have (sisters), don't ask questions either and I don't know why but it makes me nuts! Instead of saying "Can we have snack now?" or "When are we going to have snack?" They say: "We CAN'T have snack right now, Lisa"....or if one of them wants to go to the park she'll say "We CAN'T go to the park today, Lisa". Always, the negative. So, i'm working on that with them too, lol. Can't stand talking in negatives all day!