Do I ever feel your pain!! I have a dhb who just turned two who is still carried to and from my door EVERY day, with a bottle in hand. He has never once in the year I've had him been brought with shoes on and dad has even made a comment about how nice it will be when dhb can walk himself to the vehicle. He's two for crying out loud. Since he started walking he has had shoes on and walked himself to my vehicle and his parents know that. There are so many problems with this kid but it's all his parents doing. I really do feel bad for him but I can only say so much without trying to tell the parents how to 'parent.' SO frustrating!