Hello everyone.

I currently have been watching a brother and sister. Boy is 5. I have him 3 days a week and b4/after school on 2 days. I watch his sister full time and she is almost 3. They are neighbors to me and I made a mistake a year ago of accepting into care without meeting the kids. (WHY DID IT DO THIS? In fact I asked for the mom to bring the kids and her answer was "i would prefer not")

Anyway the boy is very hyper but doing MUCH better with me then when he first started. He really isn't too bad except for the fact he is hyper at times.

His sister.... Brought to me when she just turned 2 and she was violent. Hitting. MASSIVE attitude. Spitting (sticks out tongue and spits) follows my 3 yr old around the house with her hand over her head like she is about to hit. She is out of control.. Anyway after months in my care she seems to be getting better but sometimes regresses and goes back to this awful behavior. She hits somone at least twice a day.

I use to serve breakfast but made a decision not to anymore as it was getting too close to snack time so sent an email saying I am no longer offering breakfast. The kids mother writes to me.."its okay they dont really eat till 930 anyway..."

Today mom comes and drops the kids off. The kids walk into my house and the 3 yr old has a Fiber one bar in her hand. (this is the kids breakfast???) She tells the girl to go to the table and finish it. ????? Are you kiddding me! ALSO the kids were in there PJ'S. The boy says "Why arn't you wearing PJs? My mom said it was PJ day" Then his mom give me a bag of clothes to change them into..... This has happened many times before... Seriously I am able to feed my two children and get them changed and ready for the day before all the kids come to daycare... why can't she??? So the kids are still in the pjs now. I am not changing them. Any takes on this???