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    Expansive... Judy Trickett's Avatar
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    Personally if a child thinks it's okay to hit me then they would be DONE. And WTH is with the parent seeing him hit you and nothing happens? Sorry, but if a child hits the caretaker then, IMO, that child has some serious chaos in their brains to think that they are in charge to that level of hitting you.

    No way I would keep a kid who hit me. NOT cool.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Momof4 View Post
    I do that too playfelt. I talk to the child but really my message is going to the parent. Some would call that passive agressive but it really works like a subliminal message.
    LOL sometimes there is nothing wrong with passive aggressive if it gets the job done
    Children construct their own intelligence. The adult must provide activities and context, but most of all must be able to listen. Children need proof that adults believe in them. Their three great desires are to be listened to, to understand, and to demonstrate that they are exactly what we expect."
    Loris Malaguzzi

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    I figiure it isn't my job to raise the parent it is my job to help raise the child. That means helping them to grow up, mature, learn, etc. in spite of their parents.

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    If a child hit me they would be terminated that day. No warnings, no chances.

    I do not tolerate any sort of physical violence...EVER. The fact that the mom did not address it would be the icing on the cake. Not ok on any level.

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    Yup, I do that all the time.... "Johnny, I know that you know that we DON'T use our yelling voice in the house." really means "Control your child, please".

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