Holy crap.... I think I may agree that I have never seen a "true" tantrum!! None of my kids have ever ripped a sink off the wall. So, I guess I am thankful? Joking aside, thank heaven for those kinds of programs that help kids in need at what is likely the darkest time in their young lives.

Do I think some kids/providers just aren't a match?? HECK, YEAH! Kids are people too, and just like us, there are some that you "click" with more than others and some that you get along with in the bare minimum sense of the word. I may have rocks thrown at me for saying, but I have met kids that I "just didn't like". I would never let it change my behaviour towards them, and some may argue that it's based on the parents, but I have met families where just one of the children grated on my nerves.