Oh I agree - children are human beings with the human spectrum of personality and temperment traits and yes there are some that are born just 'harder to love' than others .... heck my poor cousin gave birth to one of those types of children ... he was a difficult babe from the get go and just a challenge all around to raise - a perpetually pissy personality that nothing was ever 'good enough' for him no matter how hard others tried to help him see that his life was GREAT his glass was always half empty and he saw himself as treated unfairly and so forth and he had a temper right from birth ... even as a grown man he is hard to spend too much time with he is so opinionated and difficult ... yet her other three younger children raised in that same home by the same parents are complete opposite personalities and temperaments and the type of people everyone wants to be around?