Aw, you edited and I missed the original post.... Hate it when that happens!
If memory serves she only edited out potentially identifying information about the child who prompted the question...nothing to change the tone of the post too much
Children construct their own intelligence. The adult must provide activities and context, but most of all must be able to listen. Children need proof that adults believe in them. Their three great desires are to be listened to, to understand, and to demonstrate that they are exactly what we expect."