I have an 11 m/o that started care here in Feb, when she first started all she did was SCREAM and she still does...I've learned what her cries mean, and she's learned that crying is not always going to bring me to her, it's getting better..

But I was at the point you were and I may very well term this family for other reason too...but honestly if its stressin' ya do what's best. Also...I agree with the discipline thing..do it EVERYTIME. The little one will get it, but if it doesn't happen in a time frame that works for you, then terminate.

Dodge