Hmmmm..... My contract states all children must come dressed with clean face and hands and have had breakfast and be ready to begin the day.....soooo if that child walked in with a food item and the parent didnt bring enough for the rest of the children then I would have said " no go back outside and finish that before you come in". When the parent arrives tonight to pick up the kids she would be getting her bag of clothes back along with a term notice. She is just plain rude and maybe she thinks because you are neighbors you should put up with it.....good luck with what ever you decide