Wowsa. Run.

Some of the questions are pretty normal parent-like questions but why couldn't she call your references like the average parent would do and ask the questions over the phone?

Some of the questions like what they would like you to do differently etc is a bit over the top. Each person has their unique take on daycare and she is not a head hunter for some HR firm. That seems more like a question you would hear at a job interview for other types of jobs.

I just get a passive-aggressive feeling and like she would totally be eyeballing you and every mood her child was in and attribute it to you and your daycare.