Oh I hear ya - I have two siblings who can so drama it up it the morning for mama - and than turn it off on a dime when the door closes and they get the LOOK for me because they are 4 and 6 now and there is NO EXCUSE for that behavior anymore and they know it - I have giving up with the clients trying to help with tips for better behavior because she just does what is easiest in the moment and cannot seem to grasp that if you put in the effort for a few weeks it would be easier in the long run ???