Advice of how to have a difficult conversation

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The fact that you have let the week go by also gives you a way to bring it up saying what Alphagetti posted about feeling disrespected and that you waited a week so that you could approach the issue with less emotion than you were feeling last week. Now that you have had time to think about it you just want to make it clear how things need to be from here on in and why... and then go on to say what you expect, will not tolerate, etc. and that instead of the outburst of a week ago you expect the mother to remain rationale etc.